They are such hyper bratty children, LOL!
I can see both angles. The senior dog I'd adopted had only been gone for 3 months when my mother brought home Wally and I flipped out. When my childhood dog Holly died, I was so devastated I didn't have a pet for years; Millie the senior was sort of like fostering more than legitimate pet but I still thought it was too soon. However, just like Safila, someone/something new and fresh and cuddly and squishy and bright and wonderful needed to come into this home a.s.a.p., and Wally was & is a goddamn gift.
Azerane, I'd like to think that maybe pretend the other person was just *really* concerned about all the homeless cats in shelters? So you don't smack them? lol
How would you find a cat that's okay with Bandit anyway? o_O