It's alright. The advice is for you...so i don't wanna make it about me by complaining etc. I'm sure the "answer" so to speak, will come to you once you have a little time-distance from the actual event. Need anymore help you can ask me. Though I don't think I have your msn address anymore (at least I never see you on).

Oh,and I like your avatar btw...you know a nice tiger rump is always a good sight! *laughs* just kidding...well maybe for Kiva it is on the other hand..heh.

~Kiva