About moving and such, yeah... we have had the idea of both moving to the US sometime in the future, but it's just an idea. It will need much more planning and discussing if we decide we want to do that, and hearing what you said Audra, it does sound quite difficult, but I'm sure it's possible.

I did some research last year about Emilio moving to England to work over here as a dentist (after he graduates, of course), and it doesn't seem so complicated. He would just have to take some sort of exam to be a registered dentist over here, and then he could apply for a visa to work in the UK. Alternatively, he could just apply for a fiance/marriage visa.

Quote Originally Posted by Sharifu View Post
Shadow, I don't think you can make yourself love someone, even if they seem perfect for you. Like Kanu said, you don't usually find love, it happens when you least expect it and you don't choose the people you fall in love with.
That's really true. I get it quite often at home actually.

For example, my dad sometimes says things like "You chose to be in a long distance relationship", and it hurts. I didn't choose to fall in love with Emilio, it just happened, and even though the distance is a real downfall, I love him so much and I just want to be with him. My dad isn't the most supportive of people though, and he sometimes makes my time apart from Emilio difficult because of his constant arguing and complaining, which makes the separation seem much longer than it actually is. That's another reason why 2 months seems quite a long time. It would seem much less if my dad was more supportive about this.

Shadow, I'm sorry to hear about your hard time finding love, but unfortunately what Kanu said is true. You can't make yourself love someone. You either feel the same towards each other or it just doesn't work. I know how you feel because it's happened to me in the past, but by no means does it mean you're "incapable" on loving someone. Everyone is capable in loving one way or another. It's just about time and patience. Be patient and give it some time and the right person will come along eventually, mark my words.

I mean, it happened when I least expected it... (well, Emilio was making it quite obvious in the end so I had my suspicions, but I never would've thought I'd have fell in love back then at that time) and look at where we are now. I'm sure the same will happen to you sooner or later.

Audra, I'm glad everything is going well for you. And happy 6th anniversary for tomorrow!

Little Lottee, that's great to hear, and sounds like there is some chemistry between you two. That's great to hear that you can both get along and have similar personalities too. I wish you the best of luck with that.