Eh, Lilymud works for me,i love it actually, (sure, it was hard at first.. it was a large place... and the sign up thing... kind of a ritual of passage xD.. j/k); made lots of frineds there ^_^.
And i'm defenately not gonna make a comparison between there and here, cause it's just ridiculous, i mean it's like comparing green with red, but hey, they are colors right ?, some like green some like red, others.. blue, lol ... :P . All that counts is the people and how or why they post, that's all.