There are two main things I would look for in someone as far as relationship-wise:
- Similar interests and pasttimes
- Similar spiritual beliefs and worldviews
Ethnicity and body type isn't much of an issue for me. Physical appearances can't compete when it comes to the person's soul and spirit and what lies inside.
Now on the issue of religion and spirituality, I've found that my spiritual beliefs and outlook on life is more in line with Animism and modern Gnosticism; although I'd say that I have a more animistic/shamanistic worldview concerning the natural world.
I could could possibly see myself in a relationship with a Buddhist, Daoist, or (to a lesser extent) a Neo-Pagan. Now as far a Christian (and I'm a former Southern Baptist), they would have to be what I simply call a "follower of Yeshua" (after some things I've learned in how different modern Christianity is from Jesus' teachings).