Originally posted by Only-now
You do not come to someone's country, and then ask them to cater to you and your language and not even take the time to learn theirs.
Well gee... I'm going to Finland and France this summer and I don't know Finnish or French... But yeah people still want me to go. But I do understand that it's frusterating when people talk to you and they can't really speak English, so you say, "What?" And they repeat themselves and you still can't understand them...

Originally posted by Only-now
I don't know if I necessarily agree with making immigration easier either.
Maybe you would understand how I feel if your love lived in a different country...

The marriage thing is so stupid... That you would have to get married within 90 days... I don't want to rush getting marrried with STM if we do get married... That law makes it seem like we have to do that, if we want to be together sooner...

If we get married, I want us to do it when it feels right, and we want to... Not to do it because we feel like we have to.