LH crushes

[Aurelian]

Originally posted by Amaryllis
well i think you can't really see 'crushes' as a bad thing, seen as you can't do anything about it. It just comes to that point.

Btw Nathalie, i'm not really th?t allergic to chocolate anymore, and it's not pathetic, we learn to live with it, the concequences of eating chocolate for me were eczema attacks on my hands. I still have it a little bit, but chocolate only made it worse.

Where did she say it was pathetic?

I get eczima from dairy produtcs, but it's worth it. Actually, my problem with chocolate is that I am extremely caffine sensitive, meaning that even the slightest bit gives me massive migranes. That means no chocolate, coffee, and few select sodas. As you can guess, I pretty much live on water.

[nathalie]

Yeah, I didn't say that ...

Maybe it just came out wrong *sorry Amy* didn't mean it in a harsh way or something.

And it's true, sometimes (I say: sometimes) the most beautifull boy/girl can be totally bad on the inside.
And the other way around.

[Only-now]

Couldn't find any history on the word "crush" and why it is called that, but there is a nice definition:

A short-lived and unrequited love, infatuation, or Limerence, especially prevalent among young people but not unheard of for people of any age, as in "I have a crush on [insert person's name here]". A crush also refers to the object of this infatuation, as in the phrase "secret crush".

So there you go! "This message was brought to you by Kiva: THE lion for relief from emotional problems! Found sitting on the medicine aisle in your supermarket."

Now anyways, I think it is alright to have a crush on someone who is taken. You can't really help it for one, as you are attracted to who you are naturally. You just have to make sure that the crush doesn't turn into an obsession and you end up ruining someone's relationship, etc.

~Kiva

[Amaryllis]

Roquivo and Nathalie: yeah sorry i misunderstood, my brain isnt in my head today x) sorry x/)

thanks for the info Kiva

[Sharifu]

Well I agree with you Nathalie. You can't help what people you get crushes on. As long as you don't act upon it and mess up their relationship, like Kiva said. I don't think it's the same thing as love. But I think love can develop from crushes. Of course, I've had crushes in the past, but never fell in love before I met STM.

[Simbaspirit]

awww thats so sweet...

[Kiara]

Actually I don't like love ... It's scary and stuff ...

[Azerane]

Why do you find it scary? I guess there's the fact that it means someone gets to know everything about you and if you're a very private person that can be scary, but the thing with love is you shouldn't be scared of that because that person WANTS to know everything about you, because they love you, for who you are. That's the beauty of love, you don't have to be afraid.

Though I guess there is always the fear of rejection if it doesn't work out. But in those cases you've just got to try and remember all the good qualities of that person and then look at why it didn't work out, perhaps it was for the best, though that can be very hard to do.

[Kiara]

Yea well ... Love is great, but it's still scary ... :s Especially now, and I've never been the love-type exactly so...xX

[TakaTiger]

you say that now, but with out warning, itl come back and kick you in the rear

[Kiara]

Eep xX More scary! xP

[Dare]

There is a saying..."Love is nature's trick to get you to reproduce."
In my case, it'll probably backfire on Nature because people like me should never have children...the world's crazy enough as it is without my genes running rampant through future generations of delinquents.


Crushes don't always involve love though...at least not "leik-omg-i-want-ur-hot-body" love.
Apparently there are these things called "man-crushes" that aren't sexual (or even necessarily romantic) in nature...it's more about idolizing or something like that. I wouldn't know...I'm not a guy and thus have never had a "man-crush", nor am I really the idolizing type, but I think the concept is kinda cute. ^_^

[unregistered user]

Aww, you're so mean towards yourself, Wicked. *Hugs* ^^

[Sadiki]

I can't say love is scary... even thought it can hurt. I have been in love once before fell in love with Sharifu and after that first relationship ended I was really afraid to get in another one and I thought it is not even possible for me to fall in love again... So you guys can bet I was pretty confused when I realised I have start gotten feelings for Sharifu... but I wouldn't change the way I feel for anything, even thought it does feel really bad to be so far apart. Still being with Sharifu have made me happier then I ever have been.

[Simbaspirit]

awwww....

GROUP HUG, EVERYONE!!!!

[unregistered user]

Wheeeeeee! Group hug!

[Sharifu]

Originally posted by Kiara
Actually I don't like love ... It's scary and stuff ...

I don't see how love can be scary... It's the best feeling in the world... But also it can hurt too if the relationship doesn't work out for one reason or another. It does hurt to be away from your love... But STM and I get used to it, but well we don't really have any other choice right now. But I'm really lucky for the time we have spent together in person.

Originally posted by SimbaTheMighty
Still being with Sharifu have made me happier then I ever have been.

Awwwwwww I love you dear. You make me really happy too.

[Amaryllis]

The love is just drooling off my screen over here

Well love can be scary i agree... I have my own reasons for that. I've never really bin a love type aswell, and i've never really been with the person i loved so...

[unregistered user]

War is easy, love is hard!

[Amaryllis]

Agreed Boos