Errr, that's not what I meant at all. Of course if you love someone you want them to be happy (that's all I want for my boyfriend), I'm not so selfish that I would put my needs and personal gain above someone else's happiness (whether I am in love with them or not, that's not the kind of person I am). I was simply saying that I don't know if I could stand to help someone I love get together with someone else; I would be supportive of them in their relationship and I wouldn't do anything to jepordize it, but it would eat at me that I helped start that relationship. I will say no more about this but will hope that this post will not be misinterpreted like the last one.