Concerned?

I'm concerned about automobiles, and the panic attacks I get from them. Because, I've been in 3 major accidents, that have almost taken my life away from me. I've sustained devastating injuries from the windshield. Solution? I'm gonna consult a mental therapist. Hopefully, in time, this anguish, will become a non-existent...

well, i'm worried about Lucy Lioness. she's feeling upset and i dont know who to cheer her up.
i want to chher her up because i'm that sort of that person.

please, cheer up lucy. a lot of people like you. don't feel lonely.

:hugs::hugs:

No!!!...Lucy must not be allowed to feel bad!!!...I will help cheer Lucy up...:D :cheese:

Thanks for the nice words guys. They mean a lot to me.

Go ahead Roog. :browlift:

Aww, don't worry about it Lucy. If you ever need to talk about anything, feel free to speak to me. :hugs:

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Originally posted by IchLiebeNALA
well, i'm worried about Lucy Lioness. she's feeling upset and i dont know who to cheer her up.
i want to chher her up because i'm that sort of that person.

please, cheer up lucy. a lot of people like you. don't feel lonely.

:hugs::hugs:

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Lucy? Sad? Why did anyone tell me!!? *flaps arms worryingly like a chicken*
Cheer up or we'll be forced to feed you turkey:D

well, for all thouse who were worried about me, i'm all sorted out now!

thanks for everyone's concerns!

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That's nice to hear Dan. :) Glad that everything's sorted out now. :hugs:

Yay! I'm glad you're feeling better. =D

Me too.

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Originally posted by SoniqueX
Update: My Sister finally had her (Roux-en-Y) bypass surgery in Baltimore, MD the other day. Nothing went wrong during the procedure, however after the bypass one of her lungs collapsed (fluids or somethin'), anyway, after that; they've since repaired it. So, that's a major relief. The only worries now is unstable BP / becoming a diabetic. But, medicine should stabilize that.

There's still a slew of aftereffects, much too gross to talk about right now.

`Well... I hope she stays in good health as long as possible ...

Love ya Sis,


-William =' )

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i hope she's ok Sonique

*sigh* another bee sting....
for this two month since 25 Mei to 21 July
5 Bee sting ;)....
im in pain

Ouch!
I've never been stung by a bee, so I don't know what it feels like.

Hugs anyway:hugs:

One time my Dad's brothers locked him in a shed with a bee hive in it...then they threw rocks at the shed...and he got stung by a bunch of bees....after that he was allergic to bee stings.....He later beat their asses for that....:D

Whoa...:gasp: That's harsh :cringe: My dad never had any brothers. Poor thing was the only boy in his family. He said he got picked on alot by his two older sisters :p

EDIT: What IS it that you do to get so many bee stings, Zack? Do you just provoke them, or something? :p:confused:

Me not well right now
hm.. me lost me appetite...
well food refuse to come in..:(...

Apparently, my great aunt has two months to live. I'm not sure whether to be worried about this or not, they told her the same thing a year ago and.. well, she's still here. We were never really close and I've only seen a handful of times but.. it's just.. it's never good for someone you know to die, right? Even if you barely know them?

Geez.. I don't know.

Naw, it's not. I so far haven't gone through any death in my family but my parents almost went through a divorce, which isn't quite as bad...but would have been painful.

I'm sorry sombolia.

I don't know if anyone would actually be concerned, but yeah, I'm not doing to well atm...I've been this was since Friday, come to think of it. I'm not sick, just have this really big empty feeling inside me...like a hole in me or something...and it didn't just get there out of nowhere, someone punched that hole in me...

Has anyone ever felt so lonely when they lose contact with someone they care about greatly? I have...:alone:...I've done nothing but cry every night 'cause I'm forbidden from ''seeing'' that someone (my mother is the one who forbid me). And in addition to feeling lonesome, I also feel guilty becuase I have to keep ignoring that person now, without giving that someone an explanation....and I want so much to tell that person the truth, but I'm afraid of getting cuaght and in lots of trouble....and so now I don't know what to do...:(

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Originally posted by la_reina
I don't know if anyone would actually be concerned, but yeah, I'm not doing to well atm...I've been this was since Friday, come to think of it. I'm not sick, just have this really big empty feeling inside me...like a hole in me or something...and it didn't just get there out of nowhere, someone punched that hole in me...

Has anyone ever felt so lonely when they lose contact with someone they care about greatly? I have...:alone:...I've done nothing but cry every night 'cause I'm forbidden from ''seeing'' that someone (my mother is the one who forbid me). And in addition to feeling lonesome, I also feel guilty becuase I have to keep ignoring that person now, without giving that someone an explanation....and I want so much to tell that person the truth, but I'm afraid of getting cuaght and in lots of trouble....and so now I don't know what to do...:(

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you know something reina, that was exactly what i was feeling like about 3 weeks ago. you just have this huge emptyness inside you and it hurts, becuase you cant do anything about it. I felt like you did. I was virtually crying every night about it, and the only time when i stopped was when i told the person about what was happening.

I would just try and tell them is any way they can. if that means email, email them. if it means text, text them. But resolving the issue is the only way to relieve that emptyness.

and dont bother trying polyfiller. it didnt work for me and now i only have half my lung capacity :D

Well hopefully that person will not think to harshly of you Reina.
Atleast you know you mean well. Losing contact with someone can be harsh, but maybe you'll be able to talk to them again, or make new friends who make you feel happy again.:hugs:

:lol: Thanks a ton, Dan. Polyfiller?:p
But, yeah, I'd really like to tell that person, but I can't. I guess I'm just so afraid of getting in trouble with my parents, otherwise I would've have done it a long time ago...

EDIT: Thanks, Miz :hugs: I don't think the person thinks harshly of me, but I know I accidentally hurt their feelings because they think I'm ignoring them....

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Originally posted by la_reina
:lol: Thanks a ton, Dan. Polyfiller?:p
But, yeah, I'd really like to tell that person, but I can't. I guess I'm just so afraid of getting in trouble with my parents, otherwise I would've have done it a long time ago...

EDIT: Thanks, Miz :hugs: I don't think the person thinks harshly of me, but I know I accidentally hurt their feelings because they think I'm ignoring them....

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well, if it's causing you and him pain, tell him about the situation

i feel bad about your situation..
i thought you mad at me :(:hugs::(

*Hugs Reina* :hugs: I'm sorry to hear you are feeling bad. It sounds like a hard situation, but I agree with Dan, you should try and let this person know what is going on. But it sounds as if this would be a hard thing to do.

Thanks guys, love you all :D:hugs: I think I will tell him ;)

him is... Who????

^ i don't believe that is any of our business ;)

yes, do what Dan said, just try and get through to them. :D :cheese: :hugs: best of luck

Reina....maybe you both know someone...and that person could relay messages between you two...:cheese:

Sorry to hear about that, Sombolia...:hugs:

I feel really guilty lately since i know how much my parents trust in me, they think i'm only talking to one or two school friends online when actually, i'm talking to a ton of people, including guy school friends and than now i'm talking to people i don't even know. This one guy named chris i know from school is so sweet and nice and he wants to give me guitar lessons, but my mom and dad have a strict rule against hanging out with school people, mostly boys. He wants to give me guitar lessons really bad. I've told him no and that if i even ask my parents would freak out because it's a boy from school and they'd be curious how i found out about these lessons, etc. But i'm also scared because if i they said yes, which would be a miracle, i'd be afraid of what could happen. Two people who like each other just alone. And than my parents reaction. It's tearing into me cause i don't want to be alone with him, i just want to learn to play guitar and i want to say yes to his request but i don't and i dunno. My parents have been really suspicious lately about things and it makes me guilty and scared about what would happen if they figured out about my association...Well,i hope this post made any sense at all since it kinda was random in parts...

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Originally posted by Alli
I feel really guilty lately since i know how much my parents trust in me, they think i'm only talking to one or two school friends online when actually, i'm talking to a ton of people, including guy school friends and than now i'm talking to people i don't even know. This one guy named chris i know from school is so sweet and nice and he wants to give me guitar lessons, but my mom and dad have a strict rule against hanging out with school people, mostly boys. He wants to give me guitar lessons really bad. I've told him no and that if i even ask my parents would freak out because it's a boy from school and they'd be curious how i found out about these lessons, etc. But i'm also scared because if i they said yes, which would be a miracle, i'd be afraid of what could happen. Two people who like each other just alone. And than my parents reaction. It's tearing into me cause i don't want to be alone with him, i just want to learn to play guitar and i want to say yes to his request but i don't and i dunno. My parents have been really suspicious lately about things and it makes me guilty and scared about what would happen if they figured out about my association...Well,i hope this post made any sense at all since it kinda was random in parts...

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so in other words, you feel like your betraying your parents trust?

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Originally posted by Daniel
so in other words, you feel like your betraying your parents trust?

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Yes, very much.

With the boy you do what you want to do...if you feel like he's getting too personal, you let him know that and that you don't like him all up in your space like that. If he is a cool dude, he will respect you for it and if you do have a relationship down the line, you know he would respect you.

Hmm, the parent thing I don't have much experience with. My Mom never knew who I hung out with except close friends and all....I would just tell her where I would be at and when I would be back. Since she was a single Mom, she had to trust me. But just talk to your parents, let them know what's up. Maybe the dude can give you guitar lessons at your place with your parents there and all...:cheese:

I only wish it was that easy...A lot of people don't understand the rules of my house. My parents will let me hang out with 1 or 2 girls from school ONCE in a while, but NEVER boys. Ever. Ever. Ever. Yeah. And it's not like i can just go, "I'm going to go hang somewhere." People get it easy like that. I get most of my friends from church since we're very religious. Which isn't bad because they're really nice cause they have the same rules as me and they're really fun and i'm not pressured to date or anything.

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Originally posted by Alli
Yes, very much.

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ah, well.....

erm......

i dont know what to say.

erm....

nope, i dunno

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Originally posted by Daniel
ah, well.....

erm......

i dont know what to say.

erm....

nope, i dunno

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The Offical Lea Halalela Agony Aunt is speechless. This a day to remember, indeed.

Thanks, Alli and Roog. :hugs: Tis alot to know someone actually cares what goes on in my life...

Alli, I'm sorry, but it doesn't sound like your parents trust you at all.. I mean, in the time I've known you, I would ASSUME you're not the type that says "I'm gonna go hang out" and end up snogging someone in a broom closet. Even a metiphorical broom closet.

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Originally posted by Sombolia
The Offical Lea Halalela Agony Aunt is speechless. This a day to remember, indeed.

Thanks, Alli and Roog. :hugs: Tis alot to know someone actually cares what goes on in my life...

Alli, I'm sorry, but it doesn't sound like your parents trust you at all.. I mean, in the time I've known you, I would ASSUME you're not the type that says "I'm gonna go hang out" and end up snogging someone in a broom closet. Even a metiphorical broom closet.

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Well, i say i'm gonna go hang out when it comes to my church friends but not school friends. And my parents give me a HUGE amount of trust. Just not with school boys. That's why i'm afriad to disobey their trust cause i'll lose all that i've gained. And if snogging is what i think it means i wouldn't be doing it anyways xD

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Originally posted by Alli
Well, i say i'm gonna go hang out when it comes to my church friends but not school friends. And my parents give me a HUGE amount of trust. Just not with school boys. That's why i'm afriad to disobey their trust cause i'll lose all that i've gained. And if snogging is what i think it means i wouldn't be doing it anyways xD

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snogging = kissing. british term, i guess. my apoligies.

i do like roog's idea of him giving you guitar lessons at your house.. why can't you do that? it sounds perfectly logical to me.

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Originally posted by Sombolia
The Offical Lea Halalela Agony Aunt is speechless. This a day to remember, indeed.

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*notes date down in diary* :D

i wish i could help alli, but i dont know what to say.

all i can do is offer to listen, if i cant do much else.

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Originally posted by Sombolia

i do like roog's idea of him giving you guitar lessons at your house.. why can't you do that? it sounds perfectly logical to me.

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Because boys are teh Evil....and I happen to agree...we are baaaaad....:D