*laughs* It was nothing too unsuitable for this forum! Don't think of me as the type of person to post about /that/ kinda stuff.Quote:
Originally posted by Alli
Haha, Funny. I don't think we even need teh details Neph ;)
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*laughs* It was nothing too unsuitable for this forum! Don't think of me as the type of person to post about /that/ kinda stuff.Quote:
Originally posted by Alli
Haha, Funny. I don't think we even need teh details Neph ;)
:lol:
Okay okay, lol xD Now i know one more thing about you. :pQuote:
Originally posted by Nephilim
*laughs* It was nothing too unsuitable for this forum! Don't think of me as the type of person to post about /that/ kinda stuff.
:lol:
Never underestimate online dating. At first I refused to even think about it, but curiosity got ahold of me one day. At home, we had AOL, and a popup for match.com . So I figured, what the heck, might as well. I had just gotten out of a pretty cruddy 2 year on and off relationship (though we never dated... don't ask xP). I put my personal up on there and got a alot more responses than I wanted. Most were creepy old guys :x But I waded through the rest, met a bunch of really cool guys but none were 'it'. Though one bought me a ticket for a LostProphets concert in New Orleans and it ROCKED.
Like I said, nothing worked. I didn't even make friends, just quick in and out relationships, casual hanging out at the pool hall or other places very public. Then one day I got a response from an Air Force guy stationed in Germany. At first I thought... " Right. Germany. Why's this guy bothering?" And I didn't respond for a week or so. Visiting my uncle in Florida, I got bored and hopped online. I saw that email still sitting there and my concience finally kicked in. I read it and found out he was going to be stationed in my area for about 4 months in March of this year. That was a bit of hope, but a long way away from when he contacted me.
I wrote back and that started it all. We wrote extremely long emails about everything and nothing all at the same time, every day. He'd call me nearly every afternoon (past midnight my time), and we'd talk forever. Sometimes I could catch him early in the morning and we'd talk then. I spent too much money on phone cards, that's for sure. But I know it wasn't a waste.
I promised him I'd pick him up at the airport when he got in from Germany. And a promise is a promise. Mind you guys, I dated other guys while he was overseas and nothing was working out STILL for me. Finally the fourth of March and I'm waiting at the airport, nervous as can be and fidgeting. I'd at least seen pictures of him so I knew what I was looking for.
It was an instant connection when our eyes finally met. We hugged, even if it was a bit awkward, and we went to get his luggage. To make this long story shorter - I never went back home after that night. We were inseperable.
One day we decided to go to the zoo with some friends. Me and Brandon were in our car and they were in thiers. He's driving and casually asks me my feelings on marrige. I'm thinking. " We've only been together like.. 2 months." Of course we already passed that " I love you" barrier WAY before that, like two weeks after being together. I told him it sounded interesting. Then he kind of slowed down driving and looked at me for a second, " So... D'you wanna get married?"
We didn't have rings, nothing. But I said yes. Thus, on the 20th of May, we were married. :) We've since moved to Savannah, GA where he's now stationed, and living together. No kids >>;; for a long long time.
There's my love story. :) Sorry it's longwinded ;D
Aww, that's a really sweet story Killress. :cheese: Congratulations :hugs:
Omg, that is so sweet! I'm glad you found the right one for you and in such an awesome way :DQuote:
Originally posted by Killress
Never underestimate online dating. At first I refused to even think about it, but curiosity got ahold of me one day. At home, we had AOL, and a popup for match.com . So I figured, what the heck, might as well. I had just gotten out of a pretty cruddy 2 year on and off relationship (though we never dated... don't ask xP). I put my personal up on there and got a alot more responses than I wanted. Most were creepy old guys :x But I waded through the rest, met a bunch of really cool guys but none were 'it'. Though one bought me a ticket for a LostProphets concert in New Orleans and it ROCKED.
Like I said, nothing worked. I didn't even make friends, just quick in and out relationships, casual hanging out at the pool hall or other places very public. Then one day I got a response from an Air Force guy stationed in Germany. At first I thought... " Right. Germany. Why's this guy bothering?" And I didn't respond for a week or so. Visiting my uncle in Florida, I got bored and hopped online. I saw that email still sitting there and my concience finally kicked in. I read it and found out he was going to be stationed in my area for about 4 months in March of this year. That was a bit of hope, but a long way away from when he contacted me.
I wrote back and that started it all. We wrote extremely long emails about everything and nothing all at the same time, every day. He'd call me nearly every afternoon (past midnight my time), and we'd talk forever. Sometimes I could catch him early in the morning and we'd talk then. I spent too much money on phone cards, that's for sure. But I know it wasn't a waste.
I promised him I'd pick him up at the airport when he got in from Germany. And a promise is a promise. Mind you guys, I dated other guys while he was overseas and nothing was working out STILL for me. Finally the fourth of March and I'm waiting at the airport, nervous as can be and fidgeting. I'd at least seen pictures of him so I knew what I was looking for.
It was an instant connection when our eyes finally met. We hugged, even if it was a bit awkward, and we went to get his luggage. To make this long story shorter - I never went back home after that night. We were inseperable.
One day we decided to go to the zoo with some friends. Me and Brandon were in our car and they were in thiers. He's driving and casually asks me my feelings on marrige. I'm thinking. " We've only been together like.. 2 months." Of course we already passed that " I love you" barrier WAY before that, like two weeks after being together. I told him it sounded interesting. Then he kind of slowed down driving and looked at me for a second, " So... D'you wanna get married?"
We didn't have rings, nothing. But I said yes. Thus, on the 20th of May, we were married. :) We've since moved to Savannah, GA where he's now stationed, and living together. No kids >>;; for a long long time.
There's my love story. :) Sorry it's longwinded ;D
:D So am I! I'm so glad to get out of all the drama and lies and stuff that I'd grown so accustomed to xD I know not everyone wants to get married, but I've certainly never been happier :)
I would love to get married, but that's still about 4 or 5 years off. I'm just going into highschool so yeah, lol. But, i dont want to get married right after highschool x.x I need to travel and stuff first.Quote:
Originally posted by Killress
:D So am I! I'm so glad to get out of all the drama and lies and stuff that I'd grown so accustomed to xD I know not everyone wants to get married, but I've certainly never been happier :)
That's a really nice story!!! I used to avoid on-line dating lol...prolly still will but heys! :lol:
Arr, matey! Gimme a few years and I'll travel with you XDQuote:
Originally posted by Alli
I would love to get married, but that's still about 4 or 5 years off. I'm just going into highschool so yeah, lol. But, i dont want to get married right after highschool x.x I need to travel and stuff first.
xD Well, I'm 19 and sure, I'd be able to live this wild crazy life if I wasn't married, but being married is crazy enough! He's adventurous and loves to travel so we're going to New York in January and on vacation in Germany next year some time o_O; Did I mention I HATE planes? XD
:lol: Ya..planes make me pee myself XD
but at least ya love him. :) That's one of the greatest things ever, thats why I can't wait to love...but I'm not that heavy on the LOVE LIFE right now :lol: if ya know what I mean ;)
Understandable :D Just take in to account that you have to weed through alot of wrongs to find the right guy!
O_O I'm a d*** fortune cookie.
:lol: You are true...I've been down that road...:rolleyes:
[cracks open fortune cookie] :)
Hon xD I went down that road so often I had to make a change of address. ::twitches:: I'll stop while I'm ahead xP But love is great xD
Omg, Chris is the sweetest guy i frickin know!!!
Okay, i was talking to him on the internet last night and i asked him if he was going to go to the fair and he said, "Yeah, i'm going tuesday night." Well, it turns out i'm going tuesday night too with my friends. And he said, "Well, the people i'm going to be hanging out with don't really like you, so i'll ditch them for a while and maybe i can hang out with your friends and you and go on a couple rides with you." :O:O Isn't that so sweet? His friends like, HATE me and yet he'll ditch them for a while to hang out with me. *falls over* And of course i said yes!! Lol, and than he said he's gonna make another cd for me and give it to me at the fair.
They grow up so fast. :emo:Quote:
Originally posted by Alli
Omg, Chris is the sweetest guy i frickin know!!!
Okay, i was talking to him on the internet last night and i asked him if he was going to go to the fair and he said, "Yeah, i'm going tuesday night." Well, it turns out i'm going tuesday night too with my friends. And he said, "Well, the people i'm going to be hanging out with don't really like you, so i'll ditch them for a while and maybe i can hang out with your friends and you and go on a couple rides with you." :O:O Isn't that so sweet? His friends like, HATE me and yet he'll ditch them for a while to hang out with me. *falls over* And of course i said yes!! Lol, and than he said he's gonna make another cd for me and give it to me at the fair.
My love life? Hahaha. *continues laughing*
My love life sucks. :p
Let's see... about a week, I kind of told my best friend that I'm in love with her. And it was definitely the wrong time to say that cause she broke up with her boyfriend about two weeks before that. She was all bummed cause she really liked him and he broke her heart and she was all "nobody cares" so I figured it might make her feel a bit better, but I kind of doubt it. I think maybe we've spoken about once or twice since then.
Can you believe I took her to see TLKoB? Just kidding. She's really nice and for a long time we were just really good friends and I guess I'm just not strong enough to try and keep my feelings to myself.
See? I'm pathetic. :lol:
Aww PS..yer not pathetic. You were true, kind and seeking her joy above your in the situation. :hugs: Your a good person, anything, but pathetic.
Okay..so maybe the Genie...has found..a someone. But how do you know? Like, oh...thats the one. I was raised to only date if you were considering marriage. I mean...what?! Maybe thats true...but...also this person is over the net, we've been talking for a LOOOOONG time..and, it's almost perfect [in me opinion :lol:]
He even likes COME!! i was like..tell me you like coke..if ya don like come we are DONE! j/k
But..ya..I have this double feeling like, I shouldn't be getting involved with him...and then again, I like him lots. I guess its that fear of not knowing him in the flesh?....:confused:
OMG! *faints* I sent this questionaire to chris and he filled it out and sent it back and check out the results!!
what would you do if...
1. i came to you in the middle of the night: probably play nintendo with you for a while
2. i said i loved you: tell you I loved you too
3. i kissed you: um, hide from your parents
4. i moved next door to you: um, give you a house warming present
5. i started a bad habit: try to stop you
6. i gave you my heart: give you a picture of mine (I kind of want mine)
7. i was hospitalized: Come visit you every day
8. i took a bullet for you: um, I don't know why I would be shot at
9. i got into a fight and you weren't there: You would get in a fight?
what do think about my...
1. personality: It's awsome
2. eyes: pretty
4. body: very skinny, makes me feel fat
4. family: scary, but they sound cool
would you...
1. be my friend: of course
2. keep a secret if i told you one: yes
3. hold my hand: if you wanted me to
4. tell me that you loved me if you did: of course
5. keep in touch: all the time
6. help me to solve my problems: yes
7. love me: um, not quite yet, maybe when we go to college
8. date me: probley
9. hold me: sure
10. kiss me: if your parents were very very VERY far away
have you ever...
1. kissed me and ment it: no
2. wanted to kiss me: um, I don't know
3. wanted to kiss me over and over again: maybe
4. held me: no
5. wanted to hold me: I don't know
6. won my heart: I don't think so, have I?
7. kept some thing important from me: I don't understand the ?
8. thought i was hot: maybe. . .
and more...
1. who are you: Christopher Lewis
2. are we friends: best friends
3. when and how did we meet: school, I think 4th grade. not sure
4. describe me in one word: awsome-fantabulos-smart
5. what was your first thought of me: wow, she's smart
6. you still have thoughts like that about me now: yeah
7. what reminds you of me: school work, music for some reasion
8. if you could give me anything what would it be: a new CD
9. how would you tell me that you liked me: I would say "I like you"
10. when was the last time you saw me: ugh. . . I don't know
11. ever wanted to tell me some thing but you couldn't: I can tell you anything
12. are you going to put this on your site to see what i say about you: um? No
reply back and I'll do the same for you:)
*pets Alli* Now now, don't have a heart attack there deary :p