Same here, there must be many guys like that. :browlift:Quote:
Originally posted by Sombolia
Wow, everything Reina and Sharifu said perfectly described this guy I used to know :woeisme:
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Same here, there must be many guys like that. :browlift:Quote:
Originally posted by Sombolia
Wow, everything Reina and Sharifu said perfectly described this guy I used to know :woeisme:
What?..If a girl did that to me...I'd be like...I ain't second choice, I'm a Grand Prize!!! And you didn't make it to the Final Round....:DQuote:
Originally posted by la_reina
:mad: Ugh, tell me about it....The other day he called my house to tell me that it didn't work out with ''the other girl'' and that he'd still like to be with me :disagree: Yeah right....
:haha:...Yeah....Like when you go up to a girl in the middle of summer and you tell her..."You shouldn't be outside in this heat...you're already hot enough as it is...:D ".....:DQuote:
Originally posted by Lweek
Well, I still like to flirt for fun .. it's very good kind of relaxation. From some reasons it could make me happy. :)
Hey, there's some good guys in the world too ;)Quote:
Originally posted by Lucy Lioness
Same here, there must be many guys like that. :browlift:
I know, and the world needs more of them ;)
Ooooo...Ooooooo...Pick me...Pick Me!!!!.....:DQuote:
Originally posted by la_reina
I know, and the world needs more of them ;)
11 year olds talking about "love" greatly amuses me. :lol:
But let us remember that not only men are like that 'Rifu and Reina. Women can be just as bad. ;P
I'm glad that Sharifu and STM found love ^^ I think that's very sweet and romantic x)
Reina, just about every guy I talk to and know is like that, doing the whole 'player' thing >> I don't understand it personally. If you find someone special you shouldn't treat them like a prize or an item. They're a person that may have the potential of being with you for the rest of their lives. Most guys just fail to see this because they don't plan on that happening <<
Ah well. I'm happy to say that not everyone is like that, me for example :irule: I do know some friends in college that aren't like that either.
You just have to keep looking, and you will find the one you're meant for, and don't settle for anything but love ^__^
My love life = dead! :D
Hear hear!Quote:
Originally posted by Ruska
My love life = dead! :D
This is what happens if you cant keep on topic, im going to close this one right now.
For all those who kept on topic, I am truly sorry it came to this.
There we go. I deleted most of/all of the off topic posts, so this thread is ready to be reopened. If this thread goes off topic like it did, be prepared for it to be closed again.
Back to the original topic:
I haven't had a love life until now.. I think I found the person for me... online :). She has an amazing personality... we clicked instantly. She already has a mate, but they are both polyamourous, so it might work out. I plan on visiting her the first chance I get ^_^.
Thanks : ) I'm excited about it coming up so soon. It also usually means free chinese food and nothing says love like free chinese food ;)Quote:
Originally posted by SoniqueX
^ Congrats, MehndiX! :cheese:
Ah, so true. :D Hehe.Quote:
Originally posted by MehndiX
Thanks : ) I'm excited about it coming up so soon. It also usually means free chinese food and nothing says love like free chinese food ;)
Talking about players, every guy or girl I have ever been out with has left me for another person OR cheated on me (Hell, two of them even rubbed it in my face and expected me to not get angry). Now, that's kinda a kick in the head... and the heart, for that matter.Quote:
Originally posted by Ravoc
Reina, just about every guy I talk to and know is like that, doing the whole 'player' thing >> I don't understand it personally. If you find someone special you shouldn't treat them like a prize or an item. They're a person that may have the potential of being with you for the rest of their lives. Most guys just fail to see this because they don't plan on that happening <<
Thank you very much for deleting the off-topic posts :) I hope that some of us will be able to keep on topic now. Remember, this isn't about whether you're straight or homosexual or your beliefs on love and dating, this is just posting personal experiences.
Thanks
Kay, more stories about Tyler! Yay!
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About a year or two ago we invited Tyler's family campign with us along with a ton of other people. Well, every night for a week it'd be just me, him, and his brother and sister. We never hung out with anybody. At that moment i didn't really like him, which is a reason why i was able to act so cool when his sister wanted me to hang out in their tent for a while after the parents when to sleep and all he was in was his boxers. We played catch the fairy, in which we act like idiots and try to catch the light of a flashlight shone against the side of a tent and wrestled to get it...while he's in just his boxers x.x And he always chased me during tag and he sat by me at the fire.
And another time we went to a going away party out in the woods with a ton of grown ups and it was me him and his brother and sister again so we went and played hide and go seek tag. Well, instead of chasing after me once in a while like last time, EVERY TIME he chased only me when he was it, which sounds stupid but it's true. And when i'd get away he'd get like, two inches away from my face acting like he was angry, but did it jokingly and would stop and act all innocent right when he was almost touching me nose to nose. But, being a scared idiot i drew back cause i was afraid he would kiss me. The next time he did it, he drew back...And so went on the night and it was a ton of fun.
*sigh* Okay, now...Chris stories :D
Chris is a kid from school. It started out that he sat in front of me in my math class and all the time he'd lean back and look at me upside down, flick me on the forehead and laugh and flirted SOO bad and we laughed and talked all the time and one day, out of no where, he turned around, looked at me and went, "I love you allison." Turns out i didn't hear him cause i was doing my work so i went, "What?" And he repeated himself and out of shock, i went "WHAT?!" And i blushed so bad and i never blush but now i feel like an idiot cause i made him embarrassed and he wouldn't really talk to me. Well, i found his email in an old assignment notebook cause i remembered he had stolen my book and put his name, address, and ee-mail in it when he was flirting so i added him to msn and he is sooo sweet. He makes me cd's and when i couldn't go to warped tour, he told me he'd make me a cd of all the people that were going to be there so that it would be like i was there listening to it with him =3 And than, he tells everybody i'm awesome and he asked me to go to a party one time, and i couldn't so the next day i asked him who was all there and it was just a bunch of guys, no girls that never talk to me at school or anything and i was all, "Oh well, no big that i didn't go. Nobody would have talked to me anyways." And he said, "Well.." And than paused and than wrote, "I would have talked to you."
=3 <3
Aziri, thanks for opening up this topic again. :)
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Originally posted by pntbll248
Hey, there's some good guys in the world too ;)
I know that you guys. :pQuote:
Originally posted by Nephilim
But let us remember that not only men are like that 'Rifu and Reina. Women can be just as bad. ;P
So MehndiX did you see the question I asked you before in this topic? :curious: :D
I'm sorry to hear that pntbll248. :( That's awful how some people can be so cruel... I know it really hurts. :hugs:Quote:
Originally posted by pntbll248
Talking about players, every guy or girl I have ever been out with has left me for another person OR cheated on me (Hell, two of them even rubbed it in my face and expected me to not get angry). Now, that's kinda a kick in the head... and the heart, for that matter.
So Alli you like two guys? :o :p
Three more days till STM is here! :D
I missed it at first when the thread went off topic : oQuote:
Originally posted by Sharifu
So MehndiX did you see the question I asked you before in this topic? :curious: :D
Moving was very hard, and still is. I miss everyone and how Pittsbrugh is, before moving here I'd lived there for 22 years so it was a big change, we will move back home in a few years.
Mostly the reason I moved here was it was easier at the time. I had just finished Uni. SimbaX still had one year left of Higher Tech. College (A strange answer to higher high school here) As well as the manditory Civil SWervice he'd have to serve when he finished, if he didn't do it he'd never be able to come visit his family here without the risk of jail after some time.
Then there's where he is now at University, here for him to go to school is 370? a semester, compared to costs in the U.S. for school that's nothing : p
And last there's the flat we have, in 2 years we'll own it and for what we can sell it for, will give us a great start when we move back.
I think the hard part is not being able to get a real job here in my field because of language : /
I do miss my friends and I love when I can get back and see them. Given there are only really 2 of them ; ) But still they are like sisters to me. And moving away from my mom was really hard since we are really close for a lot of reasons. But it helps them and me to know that it's just one phone call. And that it's not forever, visiting helps with that. But the airline prices right now, ugh!
It's also good to be able to say, we tried it both ways ; )
I moved in with my boyfriend aswell.
Leaving my only 2 friends behind. And I really miss them a lot.
They both work, and because of Bart working too, only time we really spend together is during the weekend, so not much chance to see my friends from back home.
Oh thanks MehndiX for replying to that... Yeah flying costs so much! =/
I can relate about having to move away from your mom, because my mom and I are friends and we're pretty close. I actually live like 400 miles away from my mom now, for the first time, to go to school... And I guess now because of Petteri she is afraid I would move to Finland. But Petteri said he wants to move to the US when he is done with school. But well I am not really sure yet how our future is going to work before he moves here, with the different schools I'll be going to and such. But we'll make it work, since we both really love each other.
But I'm glad you'll get to move back in a few years! It's really great how you guys are making your relationship work through all that. ^_^
haha
okay my love life..
i meet her about 2 years ago haha i was shy to girls.. and i never talk to her really ;), me really have a weird dream about her.. we both live together,
haha to bad i was to late when someone taken her out.. and. haha..
yeah..
Till now.. there's another girl attract me. ;)
you know :rawr: haha.. i think y'all know who she is ;)
I'm sure it'll work out. Now I understand why you hate distance. If he loves you then he'll figure out a way for both of you to be happy, and/or vice versa ;)Quote:
Originally posted by Sharifu
Oh thanks MehndiX for replying to that... Yeah flying costs so much! =/
I can relate about having to move away from your mom, because my mom and I are friends and we're pretty close. I actually live like 400 miles away from my mom now, for the first time, to go to school... And I guess now because of Petteri she is afraid I would move to Finland. But Petteri said he wants to move to the US when he is done with school. But well I am not really sure yet how our future is going to work before he moves here, with the different schools I'll be going to and such. But we'll make it work, since we both really love each other.
But I'm glad you'll get to move back in a few years! It's really great how you guys are making your relationship work through all that. ^_^
Moving to the U.S. they seem to like to make people jump through hoops. Doctors checks and stuff. I'm not sure how it goes for becoming a P.R. (permenant resident) But coming from a 1st world country can help ; ) For me to get my P.R. here was really easy, but I've heard that other countries can be really tough to deal with. Most I needed here was proof of marriage, criminal record, photos, passport and some other things I can't recall. It took 3 years until I got my 10 year card, before that it's just a sticker in your passport.
There are a lot of places online that cna help with getting all the info : )
The costs of flights. So bad. In 2001 we made a total of 4 trips and it cost roughly 3000$ (We were lucky, Harry's grandfather had set up several accounts to open at certain years and one had just opened at the right time) But now we'll be heading home in a few weeks and it costs about 2000$, but since my mom really wants to see us and they have inheritance coming soon she bought them for us.
Good luck with everything: ) I hope it all works out for you.
so cute Alli! but yea......like someone else asked.........you like 2 guys? :p
Well, sorta. I'd never date Chris, but i would date Tyler. Tyler's more on my brink of love. Chris is just a schoolgirl-ish crush. It's not a crime, is it? LolQuote:
Originally posted by Lunarcat
so cute Alli! but yea......like someone else asked.........you like 2 guys? :p
thanks, but apparently you haven't seen my pic yet :lol:Quote:
Originally posted by Lunarcat
Anon-that's awesome! you must be pretty cute :rawr: :p
I too don't understand the whole 'player' thing either... except I know it's because they (one ones like that) are, although would not admit it openly, empty on the inside, and think they are finding 'love'... yet they get mixed up with what 'love' really is... and therefore go about it the wrong way... basically acting on their desires rether than love... since desires fade when it gets repetitve.. so to compensate they feel the need for change so they find another... eventually fading out the first completely... (like listening to one song over and over until you get sick of it and swich to another song... sometimes going back to the first... sometimes overruleing the second.. sometimes the second overrules the first)Quote:
Originally posted by Ravoc
Reina, just about every guy I talk to and know is like that, doing the whole 'player' thing >> I don't understand it personally. If you find someone special you shouldn't treat them like a prize or an item. They're a person that may have the potential of being with you for the rest of their lives. Most guys just fail to see this because they don't plan on that happening <<
Ah well. I'm happy to say that not everyone is like that, me for example :irule: I do know some friends in college that aren't like that either.
You just have to keep looking, and you will find the one you're meant for, and don't settle for anything but love ^__^
I myself personally am not like that... I stick to finding true love rather than the false 'love' ... I stay back though... And will remain there until I find the right girl for me...
(and of course, being christian follow the teachings of how to find the right love written within the bible)
erm... no offence... but they even tell you how you should find love in that thing? :o
Well, this 'thing' doesn't tell you, but gives you guidelines to hopefully find a person that you could be happier. My parents make me follow the one, "To marry in the lord." Which is it's easier to marry somebody of the same religion because it promotes happiness and denotes difference in religious beliefs.Quote:
Originally posted by TakaTiger
erm... no offence... but they even tell you how you should find love in that thing? :o
Kay, back on topic. If you want to talk about the bible, i'm sure there are plenty of threads out there.
I think I'm a little late for the long distance relationship thing, but oh well. If you guys think you have it hard, listen to what my brother went through. He met a girl in college and they were dating for a while (I don't remember exactly how long) until he went on his mission. On his mission to Buenos Ares (sp?), Argentina, he could only write her a letter once a week and only talk on the phone on Christmas and Mothers Day which he also had to shorten so he could talk to his family. They lasted through two years of this. I don't know if she went out with other guys at all during this, but when my brother came back they continued to date; a I think after a couple of months they became engaged and then got married. They are still happily married after *thinks* I believe about 4 years.
That is an awesome story, Mururuwa....Because of the love they had for each other to last that long period apart.
I knew a woman who waited about 7 years for her husband, who was in prison, but she decided to marry the doctor she worked for and all, because she finally realized that her husband wouldn't be the same guy she knew before...because prison changes you.
:lol: Jeff you always spell her name wrong... :p
Aww that's kind of a sad story Jeff about that women, but I guess she is happy with the guy she did end up marrying.
It's hard to believe Petteri is going to be here in less then 48 hours! :wow: :love:
Hope you guys have a good time Sharifu =D :ayecapn:
Look like Im all alone.. in this world :(:emo: :p
haha.. im just waitin someone special :p to come over here:p
:haha:...I can't pronounce it...:DQuote:
Originally posted by Sharifu
:lol: Jeff you always spell her name wrong... :p
Aww that's kind of a sad story Jeff about that women, but I guess she is happy with the guy she did end up marrying.
It's hard to believe Petteri is going to be here in less then 48 hours! :wow: :love:
Sweet!!!...Then you guys can go and party on the beach!!!...Woot!!!!....:D
I wonder what it means when you have a dream about the guy you like. I never have dreams about Tyler, who i like as almost love, but i constantly have dreams about Chris whom i just have a crush on from school and internet.
Like, last night i had this -weird- dream that i went over to chris's house and we hung out and watched tv and he did all these weird things that i don't think he'd EVER do. Okay...this will sound SOOO weird but i can't help that i dreamt it....I dreamt that we were walking up the stairs and he teasingly kept hitting my butt but it was just in like, a brotherly way y'know how bother's bug you like than and i kept laughing and going, "Stop it!" And turning around and hitting his hand and than we went and watched tv. 0.0 i NEVER dream about those kind of things. EVER. And than the dream went further along and we were sitting in his room and his dad came in and we were all just watching tv till i looked down at my watch and said i better get going cause my parents would be getting worried and he was all sad but i went and kissed him on the cheek and smiled and left. x.x I don't know where these are coming from. But when i woke up, the dream felt so real it was kinda weird to think that it didn't really happen...
*feels kinda stupid* I sometimes wonder if i should just go and tell him i like him and get it over with...*sigh* But the thing is, if he likes me back it's not like i can date him anyways.
You should walk up to him and say............................................... .........................................Quote:
Originally posted by Alli
I wonder what it means when you have a dream about the guy you like. I never have dreams about Tyler, who i like as almost love, but i constantly have dreams about Chris whom i just have a crush on from school and internet.
Like, last night i had this -weird- dream that i went over to chris's house and we hung out and watched tv and he did all these weird things that i don't think he'd EVER do. Okay...this will sound SOOO weird but i can't help that i dreamt it....I dreamt that we were walking up the stairs and he teasingly kept hitting my butt but it was just in like, a brotherly way y'know how bother's bug you like than and i kept laughing and going, "Stop it!" And turning around and hitting his hand and than we went and watched tv. 0.0 i NEVER dream about those kind of things. EVER. And than the dream went further along and we were sitting in his room and his dad came in and we were all just watching tv till i looked down at my watch and said i better get going cause my parents would be getting worried and he was all sad but i went and kissed him on the cheek and smiled and left. x.x I don't know where these are coming from. But when i woke up, the dream felt so real it was kinda weird to think that it didn't really happen...
*feels kinda stupid* I sometimes wonder if i should just go and tell him i like him and get it over with...*sigh* But the thing is, if he likes me back it's not like i can date him anyways.
"I'M SOOOOOOO F***ING HOT FOR YOU!" :evilgrin: :rawr: :p
Hmmm...I could see him appreciating that kind of talk. He says the f word all the time! lol xD Good idea, but i think that will be my plan BQuote:
Originally posted by PhantomBPR
You should walk up to him and say............................................... .........................................
"I'M SOOOOOOO F***ING HOT FOR YOU!" :evilgrin: :rawr: :p
err...you do realize that it's sarcasm?Quote:
Originally posted by Alli
Hmmm...I could see him appreciating that kind of talk. He says the f word all the time! lol xD Good idea, but i think that will be my plan B
Do you realize that mine was sarcasm? :pQuote:
Originally posted by PhantomBPR
err...you do realize that it's sarcasm?
Good point.Quote:
Originally posted by Alli
Do you realize that mine was sarcasm? :p