Printable View
thats......... what i meant :confused:Quote:
Originally posted by Utora
But I think that being married isn't just to share things Dan, in a selfish way anyways. You share eachother, which is good enough for me when I find the one I love. But your also bound to eachother, forever.
i meant share everything, and i meant everything.
house, kids, body parts etc.....
body parts :lol: (sorry, haha)
well, if they're there, use them
nab a kidney if you have the chance :D
I'll remember that last one ;) Since I may never know if I need a new one ... *ahum* different story ...
Also, the thing is, don't rush into things, even though he/she IS the one, you have to be carefull and both be *really* ready.
Quote:
Originally posted by nathalie
Also, the thing is, don't rush into things, even though he/she IS the one, you have to be carefull and both be *really* ready.
i was referring to the body partsQuote:
Originally posted by Daniel
well, if they're there, use them
I have to agree with Utora. Well said, Utora :DQuote:
Originally posted by Utora
Speaking of 16, StE said that when you get to 16, it really doesn't feel all too great, it just comes and goes. Thinking back now, I prefer to use Lt. Dans phrase,
"Oh nose." :woeisme:
I believe in marriage before sex. We could go way down, deep deep down, but most of you know I'm Christian so that should sum it up :cheese:
I like Roog's comment hahaha, about the honeymoon. I don't think there was anything wrong with his comment, cuz that's USUALY what happens at a honneymoon. :Ooo: Moving on.
But I think that being married isn't just to share things Dan, in a selfish way anyways. You share eachother, which is good enough for me when I find the one I love. But your also bound to eachother, forever.
FYI, Did you know that Ramsees the 2nd had 8 wives and over 100 children. So, let's just say, no matter what happens, have lots of babies and be happy. :D :cheese:
I'm one of those people that would not prefer to have pre-marital sex. From what I've seen in my life, it can be a very wrong choice. Very. I have a friend that did it at fourteen, and now she's 17 with a 4-year-old daughter, I believe.
And besides, if it's done after marriage, isn't it alot more special that way? =D Call me corny and cheesy, but that's how I feel about it.
*shouts from crowd*Quote:
Originally posted by la_reina
I have to agree with Utora. Well said, Utora :D
I'm one of those people that would not prefer to have pre-marital sex. From what I've seen in my life, it can be a very wrong choice. Very. I have a friend that did it at fourteen, and now she's 17 with a 4-year-old daughter, I believe.
And besides, if it's done after marriage, isn't it alot more special that way? =D Call me corny and cheesy, but that's how I feel about it.
CORNY BUGGER!
:D
No it's not :pQuote:
Originally posted by Daniel
thats......... what i meant :confused:
Like Reina said, it's not only safer but I think it adds a feeling of trust with your partner. I'd rather be married, feel loved, be trusted, and have children with a man that I was forever bound with than live with a man for 3 years, have his kids, then see him disappear. Not that they always disappear, but why not get married if your going to have sex? :confused: It'll do wonders for your child if you have one. And, [this is just me] but if I were to just be with a guy to have sex, then he left, went on his way cuz, "Oh that's done now." I'd feel used. I want it to be a good commitment. And if you really loved someone then you'd marry them to be together forever. :cheese: And you can say, no not true. But if you didn't do it because you were afraid of being tied down to them, then can you call that love?
meh having a mate is a ***** claging in your wallet i say 0.o
nhaa just kidding....even though there is a little truf in it "nope none really just like to be mean XD"
But you know... the thing with about sex before marriage can be very risky, so to say. I mean, sex is a big part of a lot of sexual relationships, but you never know whether you're going to work with a person. *blinks* It really isn't all as easy as it's made out for girls, heh.
Anyway, my views would be that it's a-ok if you're with someone you feel comfortable with, and you use protection. Woo!
Oh dear, the whole "sex before marriage" deal, eh? ... I'm all for waiting til you're married. For me, it's not just about what the Bible teaches... it just makes me feel better about myself. I think it also just makes more sense (some may not agree and that's fine).
I agree wholeheartedly :DQuote:
Originally posted by Eva Janus
Oh dear, the whole "sex before marriage" deal, eh? ... I'm all for waiting til you're married. For me, it's not just about what the Bible teaches... it just makes me feel better about myself. I think it also just makes more sense (some may not agree and that's fine).
A lot of girls feel better when they lose their virginity, but then a lot of those same girls end up with crappy lives in the end, what with having babies at 13 and all.
And Dan, don't be a hater :uhno::p
Well, kids having baby's at age 13, I blame (some) parents.
Sorry if I affend someone with that, but that is my opinion.
Some parents these days, don't give anything about their children ...
My 13-year old kid, will not be going out to party's and stuff like that, at that age.
Far too young to even understand what can go wrong.
Agreed....the guy's gotta know how to do certian things...:DQuote:
Originally posted by Nephilim
But you know... the thing with about sex before marriage can be very risky, so to say. I mean, sex is a big part of a lot of sexual relationships, but you never know whether you're going to work with a person. *blinks* It really isn't all as easy as it's made out for girls, heh.
I belive marrage needs to come before sex like it says in the bible...
For me though, I'd say sex should be non-existant... I dunno... most call me wierd, but I really don't look forward to sex, or even want to ever try it... Imean, whatever happened to just being happy being able to be with someone? Just to sit next to them, or hold them? Or to just see them happy?... For me those are much much more important then sex... Sex should be the last thing two people who love each other think of... That's what I think..
Quote:
Originally posted by A-non-a-mus
I belive marrage needs to come before sex like it says in the bible...
For me though, I'd say sex should be non-existant... I dunno... most call me wierd, but I really don't look forward to sex, or even want to ever try it... Imean, whatever happened to just being happy being able to be with someone? Just to sit next to them, or hold them? Or to just see them happy?... For me those are much much more important then sex... Sex should be the last thing two people who love each other think of... That's what I think..
Well, when God gave Adam Eve, he didn't say, "Just look at her. No touchy."
I understand what you mean completely Anon. It usualy is the soul drive for most couples, just the sex. But I think sex is something you get to share with your loved one, and then some. It is not though the only thing to do wtih a loved one. It just happens to be the main topic of the day here on the Love Life Thread. But sex should be something to look forward to once your married, but should not be the only thing you look forward to in the marriage.
I see your point, Anon....But sex is an expression of love...just like kissing and holding hands...but it's a little deeper. Meaning it has more meaning and emotion involved with it than holding hands and kissing. People will abuse sex...just like people abuse other things. But sex should be an expression of how much you love the other person. For me, sex should be a sign of your commitment to the other person.
No sex, no kiddies :bleen: (by completely natural way that is, I mean, 'cause yeah, there are other ways for kiddies, hehe)
haha (sorry)
I have nothing more to add on that sex before marrige issue so I leave it there...
instead I wanna say that it have gone 6 full months ( or well 5 months 29 days and 13 hours ) sinse me and Audra met in person, but still we haven't been in relationship from the beginning like she said.. it took about a week before we got together... and now that is probably happiest day in my life... I do have to admit that I was confused and quite silent the first time I was there but now I am a lot more open and with Audra I can surelly talk about anything.
So I just wanna say I have loved you Audra over a year and missed being near you every moment after we met and when I'm away from you also before meeting you in person I long to be near you. :love:
I agree with Utora 100%
And useing safe sex is cheaply advertised, and does not always work 100% and if you cannot support yourself forget it