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Originally posted by SoniqueX
@MooniBear: Dads who normally drink alcohol and have the tender to verbally/physically assault their children, usually they've had the same reconciliation of the past. --- Some sought to repress it, and others have not.
Alcohol is in no way a driving force that resolves absolution, no drug is. Alcohol can be a forte of fun, malice, and hopefully, judiciousness.
Because alcohol shuts down the brain and causes unintelligibility, this starts to make things "unpleasant."
What pisses me off the most is people who do things when they're drunk and then claim booze is the fault of their wrong doing. Well, that maybe so, however, that person's own decision to drink irresponsibly is the cornerstone to which that fault is made.
I want to say this to the dads that drink and have had an abusive childhood & abuse children themselves, remember this, "You may or may not recognize to what you're doing. But keep in mind, you are only destroying yourself."
Good day.
I forgot to add that my dad does NOT drink. Ever. He's like that always, and he's always sober. I think it's because that's the way his father treated him (I wouldn't really now, he barely ever talks about his past). And I can tell that's the way my second eldest brother will be. It's his personality, not alcohol.