and alot more...like respect etc..especially if ya trying diggin on Neph..never a good idea *pets Neph* no one messes with her I'm affraid ;)
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and alot more...like respect etc..especially if ya trying diggin on Neph..never a good idea *pets Neph* no one messes with her I'm affraid ;)
Tell me about it!...err.. ;o ;)Quote:
Originally posted by lion_roog
telling women (you don't really know) your horny will only lead to you missing certian organs....:D
The point is, you really have to know the person to joke around like that, even if its just a joke you dont know how it might look like.
And sometimes that might even be to much even if you know the person, just keep it with in a reasonable err..frame O_o
Not that it matters at this point, but just to make it clear, it was all meant as a joke, and I thought Neph was playing along, or atleast her responces lead me to belive she was, either way, I can see that I am takein way too seriously, and shouldn't joke with people because 90% of the time people don't realize I'm joking, I'm not sure if this was the same case, but either way, I just wanted to make it clear.Quote:
Originally posted by lion_roog
:haha:...I kinda stopped out of respect for you and STM....even though I will do it every now and then...:D
Lets play the Lion King...Audra, you can be Simba and I can be Nala...:rawr:...:p
And Phantom, Dude, you gotta work on your pick up lines...telling women (you don't really know) your horny will only lead to you missing certian organs....:D
ROFL, nice. This talk converted really fast. :D
BTW hard accessible girls are somehow special. I have respect for them. It's like climbing high mountains .. dangerous and full of adrenalin, but final is monumental. :) However, they are much more better friends.
I have more like inteligent girls with soft jokes and friendly flirting .. but I'm soft inside. :)
Will I get banned for this?
To be honest, I have no idea ...
Have you seen "Man on the Moon" with Jim Carrey? They never understand his true jokes. But depend on you if you want to be understand or if you will "amuse yourself".Quote:
Originally posted by PhantomBPR
Not that it matters at this point, but just to make it clear, it was all meant as a joke, and I thought Neph was playing along, or atleast her responces lead me to belive she was, either way, I can see that I am takein way too seriously, and shouldn't joke with people because 90% of the time people don't realize I'm joking, I'm not sure if this was the same case, but either way, I just wanted to make it clear.
:haha:...They are survivors....:DQuote:
Originally posted by Boos
Tell me about it!...err.. ;o ;)
Phantom...I believe you that you were joking....but I joke around to, but at the same time be flirting...:p
Be flirting with who, because I wasn't with Neph, or atleast I didn't mean to be flirting with Neph.Quote:
Originally posted by lion_roog
:haha:...They are survivors....:D
Phantom...I believe you that you were joking....but I joke around to, but at the same time be flirting...:p
I should hope not...not only for Neph's sake but because if you were flirting, I'd say you'd better go back and rethink your technique.Quote:
Originally posted by PhantomBPR
Be flirting with who, because I wasn't with Neph, or atleast I didn't mean to be flirting with Neph.
;)
:haha:...I was using flirting as an example of myself...:D....Just letting you know that even though you were joking, many things can have more than one intention...even though you say you were joking, Neph took it as something else.Quote:
Originally posted by PhantomBPR
Be flirting with who, because I wasn't with Neph, or atleast I didn't mean to be flirting with Neph.
Neph, I am not trying to be rude, but would you like it if someone here posted a thread about you being an insult and they said you used the PM system OVER and OVER and that you're 'horny'? I wouldn't like that. I don't think this thread is really appropriate out in the open, more like in the mods secret ones (I have no clue if you guys really do, but you know what I meanl) I mean, I don't think I'd like it if someone made a thread and said "I suggest we don't talk to Suki because she is being an immature, annoying and dirty pervert. Via PMs. And stop pretending to be on pot too!" and it wasn't true. Now, as I am friends with PBPR, I am not taking sides. I don't know whether or not if he really did bad PM useage, nor do I really WANT to know. But all I'm saying is, is that what about the golden rule (yes, it may seem dumb to all of us since we're older but still)? Treat others the way we would like to be treated? And PhantomBPR, since I know you 'may' have done some bad things here, just treat everyone the way YOU would want to be treated, don't treat people the way you WOULDN'T want to be treated. That would be very foolish of you (no offense, and you're not a fool ;) ) and you'd be pretty down about that. Now, I think some of us here (I am SO NOT naming names) should stop judge a book by it's cover and some should treat others fairly. Now, since I'm probably boring you now, I'll shut my pie hole. :p
wow Suki! that was some reply!
There is no may have, he admitted to it himself.
Honestly, I am surprised and impressed to hear you say those words, Suki. Afterall, Nephilim may very well be the most misjudged person in the entire forum. She is always getting verbally smacked, because people tend to have a problem understanding her personality and sense of humor. She is brutally honest to the point where it hurts. She is the kind of person who, if asked if her freind "looks fat in this dress" would say yes. I think that Nephilim gets a lot more abuse and harasment then she really deserves.
As for Phantom, I know he went through a tough period a few months back, but I wouldn't have expected this from him. Thing is, I don't know what caused him to do what he did. Maybe it was a joke, maybe not. Either way, it really isn't enough for me to turn my back on him, or join in in this virtual stoning. I leave this issue to Phantom and Neph to settle.
I have to agree with Suki that this thread should not have been made. This will not fix anything, and will only serve to drive Phantom away from Lea. I have been publicly humiliated plenty of times, and it always led me to close myself up, and become afraid to make a mistake.
If Phantom really was constantly harrasing Neph in such a manner, and refused to stop, the apropriate course of action would be for Nephilim to report him to his internet provider, and they would decide whether or not to cut his service.
Hmm, seems that nobody read my posts, because I wrote that a page or two ago. =)
However, report his harasment to ISP is quite difficult in many ways. Really best way is report it to admins who can search database and track their talk to make right decission, even help Neph to contact ISP and commit them convincing evidence.
*steps in*
wtf...?
Phantom, I quite sincerely hope that was a joke.
I agree with all of you who're saying that Neph is abused and slandered more than she should be. In my opinion, she's somebody we should all look up to because she knows how to state and stand by her opinions - even if nobody agrees at all. That's a wonderful quality in a person.
It is also my opinion that this should have either been posted, or posted with a bit more discreetly. I guess Neph did what she needed to do - Mufasa & Sarabi aren't around to hold our hands and this could've gone unanswered for a long time. Neph just brought it to our attention because there would've been talk no matter what. Better sooner than later, eh?
*steps out*
That I am, That I am.Quote:
Originally posted by Nephilim
[SIZE=huge]PhantomBPR[/SIZE] is being an immature, annoying and dirty pervert.
Lweek, that would be great, if anybody could contact our administrators. The only reason we know they are alive is because the webspace is still being payed for.Quote:
Originally posted by Lweek
Hmm, seems that nobody read my posts, because I wrote that a page or two ago. =)
However, report his harasment to ISP is quite difficult in many ways. Really best way is report it to admins who can search database and track their talk to make right decission, even help Neph to contact ISP and commit them convincing evidence.
However, if Neph wanted to report him that badly, I think SimbaLKD, Neph's close freind, could help her. He knows about that kind of stuff.
what exactly are you talking about, I mean sure I've been going through alot of stuff but did you mean something in paticular? :confused:Quote:
Originally posted by Roquivo
As for Phantom, I know he went through a tough period a few months back,
Woah, that's a little bit extreme. That's like a kid calling the police because of a silly elementary schoolfight.Quote:
Originally posted by Roquivo
If Phantom really was constantly harrasing Neph in such a manner, and refused to stop, the apropriate course of action would be for Nephilim to report him to his internet provider, and they would decide whether or not to cut his service.
The title of the topic of this thread explains why she made it. She couldn't report it to the mods (because they can't ban members), and the mods couldn't do anything about it (because they can't delete PM's), so the only way she could get him to stop is by a public thread. I'm not agreeing that this thread was the right thing to do, but it was one of the only ways she could deal with the issue.
No, the only people that got banned were two hackers. There have been spammers and joke accounts banned, but that's it. There was a period of time that I thought I might've been banned, but either Mufasa was forgiving or they couldn't find anything that I did that violated the forum guidelines.Quote:
Originally posted by PhantomBPR
Will I get banned for this?
My god, all this over a harmless little joke.
Roquivo: I see. That's bad situation. Did someone ask hosting company to deliver a message to domain owner or tell you contact? Many hosting companies here allow that.
BTW: domain is registered to "Rob Cannon". I know a TLK fan who have name Rob. He's from alaska I think, but I don't know surname. :)
OO...........*cough*..................uhhmm....... .....don't understand the point of this...........
what on earth is going on here.. *is all confused* I am not sure if Neph you should have made this thread. I can understand you are upset about it, but shouldn't you solve this trough PM's and after all he apology already, so shouldn't the case be closed?
Feeding the fire probably isn't the best thing to do right now, Sombolia. Flaming is only going to do two things: make you look bad and make everything worse.
I agree with STM. A mod should close and/or remove this thread from public view.
Yes agreed, frost on snow isn't the best thing. (Sorry, I had to do it... Chinese idioms are so mesmerizing...O.o)
First of all, I'm really enjoying this. Not taking sides, but thank you Neph, if at least for the interesting conversation going on :D
Secondly, I think this is a rather ingenious and entertaining way to deal with the lack of admins. I get the whole thing, the admins are gone and the mods can't do much, so you have to find a new way to get things settled. Kudos, I'll be sure to try this if I ever get pissed (And not many people here have seen me truly pissed :p )
I do see Neph's point, and agree for the most part. How would anyone like to be harrassed by another person? First of all, I'd feel humiliated that someone was saying that to me in public (If I was Neph), very annoyed, slightly creeped out, and very uncomfortable. Sexual harrassment, both in RL or on the internet, is very very serious. That being said, Phantom said he was sorry about 9 or so times and everyone ignored him. What more can he do? Let's throw him a bone and give him the benefit of the doubt that he meant no harm, made his mistake, and accepted responsibility. Hey, we're all human and all say things that probably weren't the best to say when we look back on it.
*Edit*
God, what is up with everyone wanting threads closed? I understand if it's spam, but we really need to let people solve their own problems. If the problem started in public, let's end it in public so that all the loose ends are tied up. If the problem starts in private, the forum doesn't wanna hear about it, so keep it between whoever's involved
First off, PhantomBPR, unless you REALLY know a person in that sense if you will, I'd suggest you reevaluate your thoughts, and do things less impulsively.
Secondly, about this cursing business, perhaps if you'd want to curse, I suggest you use the asterisk, because the forums that I moderate, if you don't, I WILL edit it, and make sure that you do.
Thirdly, is this thread really absolutely necessary?
I agree with you Sonique, I really don't understand why this thread is here. If it has some reason to be here, then I don't mind but it has nothing that is of concern or interest to me, so I will just leave this thread.Quote:
Originally posted by SoniqueX
First off, PhantomBPR, unless you REALLY know a person in that sense if you will, I'd suggest you reevaluate your thoughts, and do things less impulsively.
Secondly, about this cursing business, perhaps if you'd want to curse, I suggest you use the asterisk, because the forums that I moderate, if you don't, I WILL edit it, and make sure that you do.
Thirdly, is this thread really absolutely necessary?
Okay, I deleted that post - but I wasn't flaming anyone. Sarcasm is my way of responding to things. I was merely saying that this thread definately wasn't the best way to solve the situation, especially since it was set up for "public ridicule". I, for one, didn't need to hear about it - nor what to hear about it. =P I do agree Phantom was being immature, but putting that immaturity up on a stage was not a mature way to handle it.
I think the bigger problem is that there really is no way to keep things under control on lea and no way to deal with situations like Neph's; so we have to deal with them in any way we can.
When's a good time to start a Forum Mutiny?...:D
:haha: It's ok, STM knows I love him. ;)Quote:
Originally posted by lion_roog
:haha:...I kinda stopped out of respect for you and STM....even though I will do it every now and then...:D
Lets play the Lion King...Audra, you can be Simba and I can be Nala...:rawr:...:p
Why do you get to be Nala?!?!?! :( I don't wanna be the male... Haha XD
Cool...:cheese:Quote:
Originally posted by Sharifu
:haha: It's ok, STM knows I love him. ;)
Why do you get to be Nala?!?!?! :( I don't wanna be the male... Haha XD
:haha:...I don't wanna be the male, either....I've been male all my life...and I've grown bored of it.....We both can be Nala...:rawr:....:D
:lol: ... Or maybe I'll just stick with being the random lioness Sharifu. ;)
:haha:...but Sharifu wasn't in TLK....But we can make our own version of TLK....;)Quote:
Originally posted by Sharifu
:lol: ... Or maybe I'll just stick with being the random lioness Sharifu. ;)
Haha... She is the background lioness! :p
Oh my gosh... When I was at Brad and Eric's with STM a while back, Eric had this TLK book, and I was looking at it, and on one of the pages, had a lioness that looked like Sharifu!!! Well she had brown stripped ears!!! :p If I can get my hands on that book again, I will scan that page. :p
Do iiiiiittt.....So you can show me proof...cuz right now I think that you're a crazy person that's just making stuff up...:D
Cinnamon Toast Crunch.