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Originally posted by pntbll248
*sighs*
Have you guys not noticed the pattern yet? There's a surge in alleged spam threads, followed by someone speaking out against the threads, followed by an argument, and then it fades away because the general opinion is that the solution is more of a hindrance than the actual problem. That doesn't mean the problems been solved though. The same situation came up again and again, and if this time fails, it'll come up in the future again too. The mere fact that the issue keeps coming up proves that there's still a problem.
The problem before was with game threads, spamming, and a bit with excessive randomness. The game threads have gone away for the most part, but the problem still remains: spam.
It's not just threads, but within the threads, both "useless" (quoting, not accusing) and "serious" threads. There can be a thread where a person needs support and there'll be people joking about toilets or something. Even normal threads, like "What is your hairstyle" or something (I don't think that thread's been made yet) which isn't very serious but does serve a point will turn into pages of three or four people chatting back and forth about nothing. I have yet to see a topic stay on task for more than twenty posts. No offense, but sometimes I think this forum has the attention span of a fruit fly. (notice I'm not naming specific people, because we're all to blame at some point)
To be completely truthful, I think the whole gang, crew, club, INC, team, mob, squad, pride, etc... (with the exception of TNSB and BUMMS, two of the original groups on lea) are annoying. Though I am kinda interested to see what happens when people run out of colors to represent their group (in people's signatures).
I myself am pretty tired of seeing all the spam everywhere I go to post. Some people may say that it's everyone's forum and they can post what they want. Well, I say it's my forum too, and though I don't mean to be overly assertive, I think I should be able to find being on it enjoyable just as much as the next person. That means that I shouldn't have to wade through three pages of chat posts to find a single one of more than mediocre value.
And then there's the randomness. Now, randomness is by definition off-topic and out-of-the-ordinary. Because randomness is the norm, doesn't that mean that posts with well thought out meaning are random. And then doesn't mean that the randomness currently on the board is not random at all? It's turned into a contest to see who can be the most off-topic, outrageous, and spontaneous. Is there really anyone who still finds randomness nearly as funny as it used to be when only the experts in randomness (the ones that still make me laugh) practiced the fine art of humor? In my own opinion, I respect people who post usefull threads or at least use randomness in moderation; moderation meaning limited quantity, not rule enforcing moderation (what moderators do).
Finally, there's the problem of pointing fingers AND playing the victim. I've done both at some point, didn't help. I'll change my mind if ONE person can tell me that doing either has helped them out in some way.
Because a few people I've talked to don't know what can be done, I'll tell you guys three things that I guarantee are true.
1. The problem, if there is one, won't go away on its own.
2. There must be compromise.
3. There must be organization or leadership.
So here's what we're gonna do if we're going to solve it this time around:
1. We're going to define the problem. Can't fix a problem if we can't say what it is. Likewise, we need to find the core issues and solve those, not just the symptoms. In other words, let's find why people do what they do and fix that, instead of changing the percieved problem.
2. We're going to hear both sides of the issue. There are two sides
2.2. We're going to acknowledge that every person has contributed to a problem on lea in some way.
2.5. Both sides are going to be mature. We're not going to name names, we're not going to get personal and we're not going to point fingers.
3. We're going to find a compromise. Nothing can be solved without compromise.
4. We're going to execute that compromise. Back our decisions up with action.
5. We're going to pat ourselves on the back for getting the issue solved once and for all and not having to worry about it anymore.
But before all that, we need to decide if there's actually a problem. No use in fixing something that isn't broken.
Pnt, you are awesome!