Heheh, you're welcome Amaryllis, but you deserve to be congratulated! ;)
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Heheh, you're welcome Amaryllis, but you deserve to be congratulated! ;)
In the immortal words of IceCube. "Today is a good day."
Aaah, l'amour ... It's usually just around the corner, or when you least expect it, or when you are so not looking ...
So what do you all think about sex before marriage? :thinks:
dont really see the big fuss about it really. i aint religious, so thats probabally why
but you dont need to be married to someone to prove to them you love them.
i just see marriage as an excuse for your other half to take half of everything you own when they bugger off with your best friend
but thats me :p
I'm in love with that song....Some good Old school HipHop...:DQuote:
Originally posted by Kintaru
In the immortal words of IceCube. "Today is a good day."
And marriage is great....I mean, after you get married, you have the honey moon....People, they go to these awesome places just to stay in their hotel rooms to have sex for 5 days straight and all....:D...I Am So Looking Foward To That!...:D.....But sex anytime is good...as long as she's ready and not just doing it to please me...
Too late. :jejeje: Hehe. It all depends on what the person wants to do. If they want to wait then good for them...and if they don't...then that's good too. As long as it's not forced.Quote:
Originally posted by Nephilim
So what do you all think about sex before marriage? :thinks:
Honestly, as odd as this seems, I think a lot of people who are against pre-marital sex rush to the decision of marriage just for the sex, rather than having sex before and then deciding if the marriage would be good. I'm for pre-marital sex for that reason, and because I honestly don't think that sex is as sacred as most religions make it.Quote:
Originally posted by Nephilim
So what do you all think about sex before marriage? :thinks:
I totally agree with that... People who believe to have sex after marriage rush to get married at a young age.Quote:
Originally posted by Xinithian
Honestly, as odd as this seems, I think a lot of people who are against pre-marital sex rush to the decision of marriage just for the sex, rather than having sex before and then deciding if the marriage would be good.
When I was in middle school, when our teachers would teach us about sex education, our teacher always told us we should wait until marriage to have sex. When I was that age (12 or 13) I thought that's what I should do.
Now that I'm older I don't think that matters. I think it's fine to have sex before you're married. (As long as you have safe sex, both stay faithful to each other and you really truely love that person)
Marriage for some, can be a very very long time away... I mean look at STM and I. If we stay together and eventually want to get married, we wont be able to get married until after we're 30... Or something like that. Because he has a lot to do in Finland before he can move to the U.S. So I should just stay a virgin until after I turn 30?! I mean that doesn't make sense to me. My parents don't really think there's anything wrong with their kids not waiting until marriage, so it's not like I would have the guilt of that in my mind.
But in my opinion, as I said before, I think it's ok to have sex before you're married, as long as have safe sex, you both stay faithful to each other and you really truely love that person.
I was thinking the same actually.Quote:
Originally posted by Daniel
dont really see the big fuss about it really. i aint religious, so thats probabally why
but you dont need to be married to someone to prove to them you love them.
i just see marriage as an excuse for your other half to take half of everything you own when they bugger off with your best friend
but thats me :p
'Cause yeah, in Bart's case ...
His ex took everything with her, apart from her weddingdress, which I almost burned :evilgrin: :lol:
Because Bart kind of makes it clear to me that he doesn't want to get married ...
So what should I do then, just find someone else who *do* wants to get married, "just" to have sex?
Oh, and so what if you're still a virgin at 30 ... My uncle is 48, never found the right woman ...
So yeah, it could happen, but I don't think that's something to be "ashamed" about or anything.
Oh well of course not, I didn't mean it that way...Quote:
Originally posted by nathalie
Oh, and so what if you're still a virgin at 30 ... My uncle is 48, never found the right woman ...
So yeah, it could happen, but I don't think that's something to be "ashamed" about or anything.
I mean I would never have sex with a man if I didn't love him and wasn't in a relationship with him. So I was never ashamed of being a virgin. I was actually proud to wait for someone I love and that loves me too.
I just hear so many stories of young teens who wish they would of waited. It seems like they think they need practice before they do it with the person they really care about. (I would NEVER do that. If someone loves me enough, they wouldn't care how much "experience" I had)
Oh, it wasn't like "a personal attac" or anything, I was actually just saying it in general *blush* :)
It's ok Nathalie, I knew it's wasn't a personal attack. ;)
I'd have to agree with Sharifu. Safe sex may not be the most enjoyable sex, however your life my depend on it. The whole pre-marital sex thing is just something to ensure more of a responsibility than anything else.
What is overwhelming is that younger generations are having sex way too early. There's been I think a youngest I've heard a female having a baby was at the age of 8.
People who normally have sex at earlier ages their physiological need for sexual activity is astonishingly higher than most, a 10/1 ratio.
I'd have to say if pre-marital rules helps, I'd say, "stick to it." Just don't be hypocritical about it, that's all...
Well, I guess you can link that to the fact that the body develops faster than the mind and all...Quote:
Originally posted by SoniqueX
What is overwhelming is that younger generations are having sex way too early. There's been I think a youngest I've heard a female having a baby was at the age of 8.
I believe there was a girl in Peru who was 5 and was pregnant ...
And I believe, a girl can get pregnant when she starts having her period (and some can get it real early, some real late)
Anyways, I agree with Sonique there.
These days it's also mostly like: Oh gosh, she/he already did it :gasp: I haven't, I must do it too, otherwhise I don't belong in the group anymore :gasp:
Haha, yeah, I know your point of view STL, although you sometimes confuses me, because you say like "I wanna wait till I find THE mate", and sometimes you're like "wOOt 16 ..." hehe :)
so he says :pQuote:
Originally posted by SimbaTheLion
You wouldn't believe it if you spoke to me on Yahoo every night like some of you do :p , but I will never have sex until I truly believe I am with the right fur. And I'm with no-one at the moment, so sex with another fur is completely out of the window ;) ...
i agree with most members here. But what i think about sex before marridge? well i wouldnt really know. sometimes im like "hell no! why wait till you are married?" but im also thinking like "well it is something special you should do when its the right time and the right reasons"
I do believe and agree with one thing, have /save/ sex with your true love. The only problem is, that you dont know if youre going to spend the rest of your life with that person..
*blegh* crappy birthdays, I've had my share of those ...
Speaking of 16, StE said that when you get to 16, it really doesn't feel all too great, it just comes and goes. Thinking back now, I prefer to use Lt. Dans phrase,
"Oh nose." :woeisme:
I believe in marriage before sex. We could go way down, deep deep down, but most of you know I'm Christian so that should sum it up :cheese:
I like Roog's comment hahaha, about the honeymoon. I don't think there was anything wrong with his comment, cuz that's USUALY what happens at a honneymoon. :Ooo: Moving on.
But I think that being married isn't just to share things Dan, in a selfish way anyways. You share eachother, which is good enough for me when I find the one I love. But your also bound to eachother, forever.
FYI, Did you know that Ramsees the 2nd had 8 wives and over 100 children. So, let's just say, no matter what happens, have lots of babies and be happy. :D :cheese: