A person is capable of love when they're 13. Many people who are 13 mistaken other emotions to be love, it is possible to be in love at age 13.Quote:
Originally posted by Simbaspirit
i never said i Loved him. i dont think you love when your 13:)
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A person is capable of love when they're 13. Many people who are 13 mistaken other emotions to be love, it is possible to be in love at age 13.Quote:
Originally posted by Simbaspirit
i never said i Loved him. i dont think you love when your 13:)
I was in love at the age of 8 :D and was heartbroken at the age of 8 .. xD!!!
and yeah, busted, pwend, owned, pawned, dawned, whatever the - you call it :P
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Originally posted by Utora
Nyet - no need of changing. :secret:
Back on track, I've decided to say who my crush is. Though he may have an idea, and then again he may not. If anything we're best friends at the moment. :fini:
Hanshilo
Now, back to the drinks. :kovusmile
Just a spike of interest, just as I suspected. V zadnitze. :woeisme:
Crushes and Love are two completely different items that at some points can lead to the other. Bizare nyet?
:secret:
I don't even think my little interest got as far as 'crush' in this case.
But now with it gone it allows that other little thought; that other someone I have a keen interest in, to creep forth.
But the question is who? :jejeje:
I'll take this one easy before I announce 'crush'. We live and learn - gudet'.
Today I found out that a girl at the place I work sort of has a crush on me.
hmmm I don't know, if it possible to fall in love with someone without knowing the person for a while... you can get crush tho and you can never say for sure that you love someone before you meet in person, because online the person might seems someone else then he/she really is, even they would try to act as they do in real life.
I remember when I started to get feelings for Sharifu, that I couldn't believe it, but I knew it was love sinse I have been in love before.. ( it took me 3 years to get over it )
but I'm not saying it is not worth of trying if it seems you match, but don't start planing to far before meeting in person. ( and I am not telling to starting meeting up people like crazy ) :p
Yes Love is possible at any age, well almost, i will know love when i feel it as i have thought to of been in love at least once yet what i feel is stronger than that so yeah, could be, at least for me.
heh i owned my own gf on that one XD Im sooo bad D: lol. owned, pwned, Noob, nubbins all the same to me. And before you ask, no i dont pwn noobs, anyone can do that! I PWN PROS! (well apart from my post about me and SS this is like a chat room now so ya).
I knew what love was...and then it STABBED me in the heart...:D
Ouch, unlucky roog, all i really got to say man, that is if ur being truthful, never can tell with u ;)
ok.... ready...im gonna announce my new boyfriend....
:wow:TIGGER!!!!!!!!!!!:wow:
nah... not really.... tiggers just a cartoon... just thought id mention that tho.... since everyone at school says so.... :D
lol ok safila =D Come on now calm down ^^
Oh...I'm being truthful...I just deal with pain with humor...like I do everything else...:DQuote:
Originally posted by LoneStar
Ouch, unlucky roog, all i really got to say man, that is if ur being truthful, never can tell with u ;)
aww how sad! hehe
Aww...don't feel bad for me...I have no emotions...=DQuote:
Originally posted by Sanri
aww how sad! hehe
Well love is an complicated matter, and very serious in my opinion. I think there is a big difference between /real/ love and liking... But as i said, its complicated and making me v?ry confused.. Oo
I'm pretty sure love can happen at any age, if we're talking about eros as opposed to storge or philia (not to say they can't develope) seeing as we all have sexual urges and desires long before we're toddlers. However, for love to last it takes a great deal of maturity and paitence; if you get in too deep at a young age you'll end up very confused.
I agree with you Neph. And yes it is true that love can start/begin really soon. Look at my parents, my mom is 45, my dad is 50. when got they together? When mom was 16, well then.
Well, usually relationships with vast differences in age don't work out so well when you are young. There is a large difference between an 11 year old and a 16 year old...and then a 45 and 50 year old. The age difference is the same, but the actual maturity, interests, etc are different..and that is why relationships like so GENERALLY don't last, and are not encouraged.
I sort of doubt that someone at a young age could be "in love", because of the general view of that life area. For the most part, children in elementary or middle school are not into "falling in love". So they aren't looking for it, secondly the interests are STILL different, more focused on sexual desires, etc. It is much more likely to happen in middle school, but an 8 year old, or 10 year old "falling in love" that same way as a 25 year old seems highly unlikely. I would probably put this up to the age of around 15 or so...but there are differences. I mean, the love that a 25 year old experiences, and calls "falling in love" is a lot stronger, and different than that of a 16 year old. I think once you get into the 16 on area, you probably experience a closer feeling to that of the 25 year old. I believe that someone younger does not feel as strongly like so, and its a totally different situation that they call "being in love". Of course, there are always some exceptions.
~Kiva
I was gonna add some more to this, but it just fled my mind. :Ohno: Doh!... I guess I shall just say for now that I agree with Kiva.
For a good time I've had a keen interest for a certain someone. I always feared it was just my foolish self getting in the way, and that I really didn't know what I was doing. I began to talk more and more with this person, and every time my interests grew into a longing passion; but I kept it secluded for a while, a good time. When I saw he was abandoned, I gave it my all to make him happy without showing my feelings for him. I was still afraid my mind was kiddng itself. I was doubting my own confidence. After much talking, and understanding, and thought, I finaly allowed myself to tell this someone. It's as if I've known him all my life, but never knew where to find him. It's like I've been swept off my feet and finaly I have a reason for being. I am no longer alone because I have Ravincal.
:love: http://photobucket.com/albums/a143/h...ssingNurse.jpg
I know I'm late and all but still, for all those who were curious about who I have a crush on...it's Kanu_TGL...*blushes*
Congrats Utroa and ravincal =D
Kivoru, does Kanu know that? Ohh my best mail pal has a crusher ^^
ahww congrats Utora and Ravincal ^_^
Wauw, you're in no hurry are you Utora and Ravincal, both very recently "taken" *ahum* hehe ...
And about that age thing ...
Bart is 11 years older then me.
And it's not because things are hard between us because of that age different.
Bart is just ... how should I say it ... not so smart concerning some things, haha
My uncle is 11 years older then my aunt, and they are now together for like 20 years.
Yeah it doesn't really matter what age, as long as you are both ready for it, and love eachother.
Well thank you Amy ;) And geez, only god can tell how much I really love her, after my ''Jenna'' accident I thought I wouldn't have the guts to get myself a new and a real person I could spent my life with. But she proved me wrong ;) My comrade Utora! <3 :love:
awww nice to see more couples =D and Quote u earlier ravincal "My brother now you guys?" Now you too?! XD Well... I think it was you, and I think u said something like that.
It was pretty much an...'on-going' thing - I just never said anything about it. :secret:Quote:
Originally posted by nathalie
Wauw, you're in no hurry are you Utora and Ravincal, both very recently "taken" *ahum* hehe ...
And thankius maximus to the folks who congratulated us. :evilgrin:
I've told her once...but, alas, I think she has eyes for someone else... *sighs*:alone: she keeps swooning and sighing over this guy too...Quote:
Originally posted by Amaryllis
Kivoru, does Kanu know that? Ohh my best mail pal has a crusher ^^
ahww congrats Utora and Ravincal ^_^
Now taking bets on how long these things'll last!
Betcha all of em will go down the drain in a couple weeks or months. Lmao oO (NO offense to anyone) but yeah I just dont see people getting together in a matter of days and it. Lasting, Why because you dont know that person all that well ;)
I think it will last a long time. Though I can't ignore the fact I said the same with you Kove, but it changed after a while, and I learned from my mistakes. I also think you're better off without me. Well, as soon as I get 20 + hours in the air, I'll take a Cessena 172 to see Rav. :lol: That's more ridiculous than actually going to see him right now, but none the less, I'm gunna find a way.
Don't be disappointed if the bet never comes through. :idiot:
I'm not betting against it, well, I sorta am but I believe any relationship is possible, as long as the two really feel for each other x) its just kinda hard if you dont really know the person,
Thus in turn, its always good to ask questions before making a judgement ;)
And I guess I should just meh say it, but you guys dun care who I'm with and most already know due to MSN xD so :E Yeah xP *Keeps silent* >3
~KTL~
We do care you know...... :p
i know mine will last a long time... or at least i really really hope, im hoping moving up there will make my relationship last for a long long time ^^
haha, I have a crush on someone from Lea who I can't have but every night I wish for us to be together, they might not be active anymore but their account is still active :evilgrin: *sigh* false hopes can really kick ya in the butt ;)
I don't want to sound like a hypocrite since STM and I met here at Lea, but so many people here at Lea recently seem to be getting together a LITTLE too fast. It kind of creeps me out... But that's just me I guess. XD (And I mean for people offline too) But STM and I was kind of different... We were friends for over a year first, and even I think it's silly to say you're in a relationship when you haven't even met first. That's something I told STM straight out. We didn't get into a relationship until after we met.
But yeah, I guess whatever makes everyone happy. It looks like though a lot of relationships here where they never met, don't last long at all. (Not all of them but a lot of them)
STM have been together for almost 10 months, and been together in person for almost 3 months. (Quite long for our distance) And this summer, we'll be together for three months maybe even more. ^^
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Originally posted by DerekNitroRC
haha, I have a crush on someone from Lea who I can't have but every night I wish for us to be together, they might not be active anymore but their account is still active :evilgrin: *sigh* false hopes can really kick ya in the butt ;)
you know the rules.. spill it, who are they? >=3:bleen:
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Originally posted by Sharifu
I don't want to sound like a hypocrite since STM and I met here at Lea, but so many people here at Lea recently seem to be getting together a LITTLE too fast. It kind of creeps me out... But that's just me I guess. XD (And I mean for people offline too) But STM and I was kind of different... We were friends for over a year first, and even I think it's silly to say you're in a relationship when you haven't even met first. That's something I told STM straight out. We didn't get into a relationship until after we met.
But yeah, I guess whatever makes everyone happy. It looks like though a lot of relationships here where they never met, don't last long at all. (Not all of them but a lot of them)
STM have been together for almost 10 months, and been together in person for almost 3 months. (Quite long for our distance) And this summer, we'll be together for three months maybe even more. ^^
well might as well spill the beans on this one, since Sharifu posted on the topic I'd like to comment it as well ;)
I've known for what it seems since... Late July almost LunarCat as a friend, but we didn't actually start talking a lot until about.. Hmm.. December, but we've known each other for a good 9 months it seems now ;) Sorry if I'm wrong, males minds are kinda dead after a long period of time. And so yeah if you havn't guessed yet now, I'm with LunarCat :hugs: but.. What Sharifu is saying I think is so totally true, though I probably wont get to see her IRL until we are a bit older due to parental reasons, I'm sure all that can be easily worked out later on in life ^^
But just because you meet IRL does not mean it will work out either Oo...oO.. xX unfortunately love doesnt work that way. And some people can find, and have love (Wow sounds so wrong) over the internet, but most dont usually last because of the distances. But LC and I don't really live that far away from each other. It would cost me around 100 dollars just to fly down and see her, thats one days of pay. And hopefully that day that I get to go down and see her will be soon :) But if its not, we both know we can wait :) As we've already talked about.. a thousand personal, and rather embarassing topics ;P xD I probably shouldn't have said that but ah well, this is a crush thread.. >D
And with that, I think I should just.. Stop typing :)
Personally, I think that's the business of the people in the relationship, and no one else's. Some people may be able to make a relationship online work, some may not, but they're entitled to try nonetheless. I don't think in every case a person has to meet the person they like before they can be in a relationship. I'm not attacking you, just disagreeing.Quote:
Originally posted by Sharifu
I don't want to sound like a hypocrite since STM and I met here at Lea, but so many people here at Lea recently seem to be getting together a LITTLE too fast. It kind of creeps me out... But that's just me I guess. XD (And I mean for people offline too) But STM and I was kind of different... We were friends for over a year first, and even I think it's silly to say you're in a relationship when you haven't even met first. That's something I told STM straight out. We didn't get into a relationship until after we met.
But yeah, I guess whatever makes everyone happy. It looks like though a lot of relationships here where they never met, don't last long at all. (Not all of them but a lot of them)
STM have been together for almost 10 months, and been together in person for almost 3 months. (Quite long for our distance) And this summer, we'll be together for three months maybe even more. ^^
I know what you mean phtbll248, still it's just my opinion though, because people can seem and act different in person then they do online. You know?
Yeah I know KTL, just because you meet doesn't mean it will work out. I didn't mean to make it sound like that.