Originally Posted by
nathalie
That's really sweet :)
But he's not coming to Florida ;) haha, he'd rather die I guess, lol.
He's not so much into Disney ... he's only going now next month with me, because when we went last June, things weren't all so great that day. My sister was a pain, my parents kind of didn't want to go anymore, things like that.
So he just wants go to this time with me, and have fun, just the two of us.
We'll see if he still likes it after that or not, lol.
Anyways, he doesn't want to get married.
He doesn't wanna get married, unless you get kids afterwoods. He thinks it's wrong, that if you get married and not have kids, because to him, that's not the "normal way".
And I don't want kids.
I wanna marry him because I love him, that's how I believe in those things.
I do not believe a baby makes you love each other more.
I'd have to sacrafice my life for a baby, and I don't want that.
I'm a very selfish person, though, whenever someone needs my help, I'm there, but that's very different in my own mind.
It's hard to explain how I feel about that ...
My Godchild was home last week for 2 days, he's 1,5 years old. And my dad is all like: there's your auntie ...
And I'm like: leave me alone ... -_-
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Though, I think he's changed since his parents got divorced 2 years ago.
He was already 28 at the time, and thought his parents would stay together forever. I guess because of the age, he realized a lot more what was going on and why then when you're like 8 years old, and I do see a change in thoughts with him since then.
I guess he's scared, which is understandable.
And also, after his mom left, he learned that his mom was pregnant of him and they "had" to get married, so my guess that all those things made him change a lot of things in his mind.
He was extremely upset when he found out his mom was already pregnant before they got married, 'cause even though that wasn't something he could do about, he still felt guilty, because it was "him" she was pregnant of.